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Ebiye Victor and Agnes Ejeme, his pretty girlfriend could be walking down the aisle soon following a surprise engagement!
The Instagram sensation, 24, moved his bae to tears when he got on a bent knee during a dinner date at 6ix restaurant, Victoria Island, yesterday, October 26, 2017.

With hands over her mouth and emotional tears in her eyes after being caught off-guard by the comedian, Agnes says yes, extending a hand to her boo who slides the engagement ring into her finger amidst cheers from close friends and spectators.

The blossoming comedian's emotional words on his Instagram pages reads:

"Sometimes I think I need a spare heart to feel all the things I feel for you, Glad you’re in my world now #MyOrente

Dear Bukky,

I’m just six months away from my fortieth birthday and I’m still a single man.

Ladies I come across are either looking for a rich guy or lacking in character.

Should go ahead with someone whose character is a time bomb simply because I am almost forty?

Besides, I'm being pressured to do so by friends and family.

I’m confused; should I just get along with just anybody simply because the time is ticking, regardless of the tendency to be unhappy in it?
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Dear reader,

No, don’t do it. I know it sounds cliché but it’s the truth so it just has to be said.

Your happiness is what should matter most to you and whatever you decide to do should align with that and not just what people are advising you to do.

It’s understandable for pressure to pile up at this age but then if a marriage that lasts a lifetime is what you are hoping for, then it’s wise to go for someone with whom that looks feasible.

It might be a difficult thing to admit at this stage for you, but the truth is that it’s infinitely better to be happy single than frustrated and unhappy with a partner.

Whatever you decide to do, dear reader, please don’t trade your happiness or jeopardise your peace of mind.

I really do wish you all the best.
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Do you have burning questions that you would love to get answers to?

Just send a mail,  include your location and detail your issues to relationships@pulse.ng.

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Some men still love genuinely and treat women right. When you find one of these, this are some of the things you'll recognise him by.

1. He listens
When your man is totally in love, he could listen to you talk forever.

Ok, maybe not forever because some of you actually talk a lot.

But then, the point is that when a man pays attention to you and converses in the deepest manner with you; hearing your dreams and even senseless ramblings, he often does so out of a craziness about you.

2. Extra effort
That extra commitment, extra patience, extra sacrifice that is needed to stay together happily, he’ll effortlessly give it nine out of 10 times just to keep y'all together.

That man is crazy about you, ma’am.

Not just when it’s convenient and not just once in a while. He’ll make it habitual. It’ll look to you as if you’re in a bubble.

These types of relationships and marriages still exist. Don’t be fooled into thinking they don’t.

3. He trusts
And does so completely; staying off your phones and locked devices because some privacy is still necessary no matter how entwined your lives have become.

Couples that thrive understand the importance of trust and your man, because he loves you completely trusts you without reservations.

He is, of course, also trustworthy.

4. He exists
Perhaps this is the biggest thing to note.

As much as people peddle scary, sad stuff about relationships and marriages these days and as much as the society truly reflects a scarcity of men like these, the truth remains that they do exist.

And it is not enough to desire one, you also need to be a woman who reciprocates his true love and deep affection with the same.

There is this lady that I love but proving hard to get, she barely picks my calls nor reply my chat on Whatsapp.

But I recently found out that she has a boyfriend she is in love with.

However, the guy in question is out of the country. How do convince her to be mine because all efforts always proves abortive.
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Before I tell you how to get this babe and make her yours forever, I need you to answer just one question.

How would you feel if you travelled abroad left your girlfriend behind in Nigeria on the promise that you’d be back for her in few months, but instead of waiting for you as she promised, she dumped you for someone else before you return?

You'd be very happy, wouldn’t you?

Of course not.

See, you need to learn to let people enjoy their happiness. That babe is not the only one in the world. Leave her to enjoy her relationship in peace.

There are many other single ladies out there that would be glad to have you.

You asked me you would get the babe. I hope you wouldn’t if it means hurting someone else, especially if nothing is wrong with the relationship and they’re both happy regardless of the distance.
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Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?

Do you have burning questions that you would love to get answers to?

Just send a mail,  include your location and detail your issues to relationships@pulse.ng.

I'll provide the most honest answers to them anonymously.

How does a man know that a woman likes him?
What are the things to watch out for?

There isn't a water-tight system to knowing as women are different in their emotional constructs.

Regardless, experience has shown that when you notice her doing a number the things listed below for you, you should know that chances are high that she really likes you, for she would never do them for someone who does not mean much to her.

1. Dresses up
This does not necessarily mean she wears her best dress every time just for you, it means she actually makes effort to impress you.

2. She lets her jealousy show
Women generally like to hide their jealousy because to do this, it means they are willing to let their vulnerability show, and they would never do that unless they really like you.

That’s the only time it’s ever worth it.

3. Reveals her deepest secrets
While girls might tell people some parts of themselves, they reserve their deepest, most intimate, even darkest and dirtiest secrets to someone they really trust, someone they truly like.

4. Admits her feelings for you
Women hate putting their feelings out there except they can no longer help it.

So if she’s spilling her heart out to you, believe her, she has to really mean it.

5. Indulges your excesses
If she likes you, then she’ll let you get away with a lot more than you should.

Things that other men [and even her own friends] will never get away with, she'll permit them if it's you doing them.

This is not an excuse to intentionally maltreat women.

But, if by chance, you are yet to really get your act right, and a woman repeatedly lets you go scot free, best believe she really likes you.

6. Food
Ha. What's love without a sprinkle of good edible flavours and great meals?

It might be because she is just nice, but of course, if she always invites you over to come enjoy homemade meals, just know there is a special feeling attached to it.

7. She goes goofy
Women want to be classy for the whole world. With you, however, it goes deeper than that.

She's willing to show you her goofy, playful side.

8. She loves you with those quirks
What your friends laugh at you for, she may absolutely find it cute and endearing.

I know someone who thinks her boyfriend's inability to pronounce 'r' sounds is cute in a funny way.